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A separation or divorce, an illness or death, moving, or even a financial issue like a home foreclosure can result in a storm of feelings for kids and parents alike.
Our unique perception and reaction to an event, and our personal coping resources, cause a stress response. Two people experiencing the same situation may cope very differently. One may feel intense mental or emotional tension while the other experiences only a slight bump in the road.
When parenting during times of high stress, keep in mind that stress may affect your child very differently from how it affects you as a parent. Just as parenting coping resources may be diminished under times of great stress, children may behave very differently from their norm when under great stress.
Recognizing the symptoms of stress and identifying the stressor is extremely important. A change in behavior often is a key indicator of stress.
Here are some examples: Recurring physical discomfort, such as a stomachache on a school morning or a bodyache every day before practice, without a health reason. Emotional changes, such as an outgoing child withdrawing, a normally happy child seeming sad all the time, or a mild-mannered child becoming irritable or developing an explosive temper.
School performance changes, such as plummeting grades or acting out in class. Increased fears or anxiety. Sleep changes, either trouble sleeping or sleeping much more than usual. Residual effects of stress situations may occur over weeks, months, or even years. Sometimes, it may come back up at various developmental stages later in life as the stress is re-experienced.
Continuing to be open to questions and actively listening to your children when they share their thoughts is imperative. Processing stressful situations is rarely a one-time conversation.
Below are five types of stress situations and how to handle them: Answer all their questions. Maintain your own composure. Understand that children may blame themselves. Remain on civil terms with your ex-spouse. Ongoing parental conflict following a divorce is one of the strongest predictors of negative outcomes for kids.
You can be a good role model for behavior regardless of whether your ex-spouse is doing so. Try to keep limits and rules at each home as similar as possible.
Kids can get used to different rules at different places as long as they are consistent in each. Illness is extraordinarily stressful regardless of whom it affects.
It cannot be adequately covered in this short article. Please reach out to your extended circle of support, and try these tips: Kids thrive on predictability, even small routines.
Maintaining normalcy is important. Avoid the impulse to overindulge or overprotect your kids. It only sends messages of fragility, incompetence, or doubt about their ability to get through this difficult situation. Financial uncertainty can strain a family.
Kids pick up on cues from their parents, so you can assume that children will pick up on parent stress and anxiety. Yet kids may have no context at all for understanding what is going on.
Explain any changes in standard of living that will affect their lives, and answer questions as honestly as you can.Family Runner will handle everything your family does, keep a handy list of names, addresses and phone numbers, and prepare a wide variety of calendars and other reports.
Whether you want to view one family member's schedule or everyone's, Family Runner will handle it. Problems with the Theory: Linear model trying to explain complex families and situations, IOW it is not one single event that causes family to become stressed to the point of crisis but rather an accumulation of events.
Bowen Family Systems Theory and Practice: Illustration and Critique comprehensive theories of family systems functioning (Bowen, , , Kerr and Bowen, ).
While it has anxiety in any one family will be determined by the current levels of external stress and the sensitivities to.
After realizing her life’s goal of creating a wonderful family, Allyson wonders why she is still unhappy. Themes: Motherhood, Stress, Family, Unhappy, Purpose, Meaning, Significance, . Family Stress Many of us hold the myth that families are (or should be) free from stress, that the home should be a haven of peace and tranquility.
Our society gives us the clear message that it is acceptable to experience work-related stress, but not family-related stress. The Lazarus Stress and Coping Theory offer an interesting way for you to understand and approach your stress in life. Lets take a moment to understand this topic more.
The Richard Lazarus and Susan Folkman Model For Stress.